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The Sheila Botelho Show: Business Strategy and the Inner Work of Leadership
Alignment and Agility: Why You Need Both to Move | EP 596
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I was on a morning walk when an old memory stopped me in my tracks, and it turned into this episode. The way you get grounded before a big move matters as much as the move itself, and doing it well doesn't have to take as long as you think. Full show notes, transcript, and chapters at sheilabotelho.com/596
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The Pause Before You Move
SheilaYou've probably felt it before, the moment where something good is right in front of you and you're still waiting to feel ready. That pause is worth understanding because it's costing you more than time. And it's also one of your greatest assets once you know how to work with it. I've spent many years in business learning to move from alignment at speed. And today I'm sharing what finally made that click for me. Stay with me to the end because the turn in this one is worth it. Hi, welcome to the podcast. I'm Sheila Botelho, and I believe true success is built from the inside out. You're listening to a mini sode that's designed to help you live into what lights you up this week. I was on a morning walk a few weeks ago when a string of old business memories started coming up for me. The early days, the moments where an opportunity would show up and I'd feel myself pause, get still, check in with myself before I moved, while other people were already executing. I was still finding my footing. And for a long time, I thought that was slowing me down. And now I know it was actually one of my strengths. But there's a version of that instinct that can serve you and a version that can stall
A Swimming Pool Turns Into Fear
Sheilayou. And I didn't fully understand the difference until I thought about a swimming pool. So I grew up in the country, far from any municipal pool. So getting into one as a kid felt like a big deal. And the first time I really swam was at a neighbor's pool when I was around seven years old. And I had a flutterboard they gave me. I stayed in the shallow end. And by the end of the evening, I felt really comfortable. So I thought I'm going to venture toward the deep end. I did it alone, P.S. What I didn't know was how much energy flutterboarding actually takes. I lost my grip. I sank. And my friend pulled me up. My parents got me to the edge. And from that moment on, I was afraid of swimming pools. Fast forward a year or two, and my class was bust into the city for weekly swimming lessons. I did fine in the shallow end, but when it came time to jump into the deep end, I froze. The instructor tried everything to ease me in. And the longer that I waited, the more scared I got. I never ended up jumping. Not that day, not for the entire term. And while every other kid walked away with a badge marking a new level, I walked away with a participation badge. I was the only one. And it wasn't until high school that anything changed. I made a best friend who happened to be a lifeguard. And with her in the water, eventually I jumped. And I've been jumping ever since.
Trusting Support Changes Everything
SheilaSo here's what I've been sitting with from that walk. The thing that got me into the water wasn't more time. It wasn't more information. It wasn't a better pep talk from an instructor on the side of the pool. It was the right support, someone who knew the water, who I trusted completely, and who was already in it with me.
Alignment Versus Stalling In Business
SheilaThat pattern showed up in my early business life too. I wasn't someone who moved fast into new things. I needed to feel grounded first. And that's actually still very true. I value an internal alignment before a decision. I always have. All these years with my partner, married, friendships that go back 40 years. I'm a long hauler by nature. I stay. Now the shadow side of that, and I'll be honest about this, is that sometimes I stayed in situations past the point where leaving would have actually served me better. And I don't call those mistakes. Those definitely became data for me, though. They became the thing that taught me how to read a situation more clearly and trust my own read on it faster. Because here's what the world has required of me, and probably of you too. The pace of business now means that agility is not optional. And I've built that capacity. I've done it by getting in the water with new experiences, new communities, new ways of building. And each time it expanded what I thought it was capable of. Each time it got faster. But here's the thing I won't negotiate on. The speed I move at now still honors my body, my well-being, my relationships, and my energy because those things are all connected. When one of them is off, every other part of the business feels it. That's not soft, that is structural.
Season’s Success Method And Closing
SheilaWhat I've found and what I know that I share with every client now is that getting grounded before you move doesn't have to take a long time. I built a practice around this for myself first. And then it became what I now call the season's success method. It's a way of checking in with where you actually are so that when you move, you move from solid ground and you move fast enough to matter. Alignment and agility together. That is the integration. One without the other is either paralysis or chaos. Both of them working in harmony is what makes the moves you make actually stick. If this resonates and you're curious about working together, the show notes have everything you need to find the right way in. Thank you so much for listening, and I hope you have a beautiful rest of your week. I'll see you on the next episode.