The Sheila Botelho Show
Sheila Botelho is a business strategist guiding visionary leaders to more profit, freedom, and self-trust. With decades of experience in wellness, sales, and transformational coaching, she helps founders grow businesses that generate wealth and impact—without burning out or dimming down.
On this show, Sheila sparks future-focused conversations about growth, leadership, and the shifting landscape of business in an era of rapid change. Her self-trust-centered approach equips founders to align strategy with soul, scale sustainably, and create a legacy of influence and abundance that touches every area of life.
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Where My Confidence Actually Comes From | EP 561
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So many women tell me they want to feel more confident, but what they are really waiting for is certainty, perfect timing, or proof that they are ready. In this minisode, I share a different perspective, one that’s far more sustainable.
If you’ve been negotiating with yourself lately, waiting to feel more prepared before you step forward, let this episode be your reminder. You do not need to earn confidence. You build it one aligned choice at a time. Start with what you can honor today, and let that be enough.
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So many people tell me they want to feel more confident this year, but they're waiting for certainty, clarity, or the perfect moment before they move. In this mini sode, I share what confidence is actually built on. It's not what you think. If you've been asking yourself why you still hesitate, even though you're capable, this is the perspective that can change how you show up this week and this year. Hi, welcome to the podcast. I'm Sheila Botelho and I believe true success is built from the inside out. You're listening to a mini sode designed to help you live into what lights you up this week. If you're starting this week wanting to feel more confident, I want to offer you something that might surprise you. Confidence doesn't come from getting everything right. It also doesn't come from perfect timing. And it doesn't even come from knowing exactly what your next step is. Confidence comes from something else, something steadier, something that you already have, even if you haven't fully trusted it yet. It comes from keeping small promises to yourself. When you show up for the things you said to yourself that mattered, even in micro ways, your entire nervous system gets the message, I can rely on myself. That is the root of confidence. It's self-reliance, self-honoring. And what I love to talk about a lot, self-trust. It's the moment that you decide I am going to move as the person I'm becoming, not the person I've been negotiating with. That's when everything changes. Because confidence isn't built in motion, it's built in self-attunement. And it's built in choosing the energy that you want your life to run on instead of waiting to feel ready. So if you're listening to this today, let this be your reminder. You don't earn confidence. You build it one aligned choice at a time. Start with a single promise you can actually keep today. Something nourishing, something grounding, something that reminds you who you are becoming. That person, the one you're stepping into, they're already here. Walk with them today. Thanks for listening. And as always, I'd love to hear how this one lands for you. You can find a link to text me in the show notes, as well as how we can work together this year. Have a beautiful rest of your week, and I will see you on the next episode.