The Sheila Botelho Show

Creating While Becoming | EP 529

• Sheila Botelho

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This week’s solo chat highlights what it really feels like to grow your business while you’re still growing into your next evolution. We discuss how my artist’s lens has transformed the way I lead, sell, and structure my business and why some of the most important seasons aren’t meant to be broadcast in real time.

Whether you’re in the middle of a silent shift or building your next level offer, this episode will remind you that the most powerful creations often happen in the in-between.





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Sheila:

Most people don't realize that the most powerful creations happen in the quiet middle, when you're still becoming the version of you who can actually hold what you've asked for. You don't need to have it all figured out, but you do need to know how to move through that in-between space without unraveling your vision. This episode is your invitation to create while you're still becoming and to let your next level rise from within your real life, not in spite of it. Hi, welcome to the podcast. I'm Sheila Botelho, holistic business strategist, creator of the Season Success Method and your guide to growing success from the inside out. This space is where we explore what it looks like to scale or pivot your business, your impact and your self-leadership in a way that feels aligned, profitable and rooted in who you actually are. And today's solo chat is coming to you from a space of transition, and I want to be really present in how I share this, because I'm in a moment of becoming. I'm not at the starting line, not at the finish line, but somewhere in between, and it's a space I know you may be familiar with as well, and it's a space I know you may be familiar with as well. This episode is for you if you are building while you evolve, if you're scaling while you're letting go, and if you're creating from within a very real and very full life, and not waiting until everything is perfectly packaged. So let's go there.

Sheila:

Something I've learned about being in business for the long haul is that the duality never goes away the both and becomes your daily norm. You might be onboarding new clients while grieving an old identity. You could be launching something while recalibrating how you lead your team. You could be scaling up while setting deeper boundaries. None of these things are mutually exclusive. The seasoned founders that I work with know how to hold space for both. They don't need everything to be wrapped up in a neat bow before moving forward, and that is where the legacy building energy starts. Done in silence, it can be done in a whole variety of noise as well, but then somehow it's like finding that quiet in the midst of it, that eye of the storm. It's often layered, messy and unexplainable until the very end, and I've realized that this is how I'm building right now.

Sheila:

Some of the things I'm working on haven't been shared yet, and it's not because they're secret, but because they're really sacred to me and they're still taking shape. So this is your permission as well to create before you explain, to build before you define what you're working on, and to trust that what's forming in the dark will eventually find its light. So, without sharing specific details, because there's so many moving parts and things are continually shifting, there are some really meaningful transitions underway in my life and they've been brewing for a long time, and I'm talking seeds that were planted like seeds of intention, planted probably 25 years ago and right now they're taking shape. 25 years ago and right now they're taking shape. So what I want you to know is you don't owe the world your process before you've lived it. There is so much power in tending to the sacred quietly, which goes away from and against, really, our very, very active social media world, where everything's captured on video and photo. This is a time where there can be leadership in building your next chapter without announcing it before you're actually ready. It doesn't make you less bold, it actually makes you more anchored. So this season in my life does feel incredibly pivotal, and there are things happening right now that I've dreamed of for years, and five years ago I got crystal clear on what I was stepping into, but the timing wasn't right yet. So many other things had to evolve. And now what's happening to evolve. And now what's happening is it's landing and it feels right.

Sheila:

I've always had big, beautiful goals for how I want to live, how I want my days to feel and what I want my legacy to look like. And your legacy can be taking shape from a very young age too, like regardless of where you find yourself in the terms of what decade of your life you're in. Legacy will look different depending on where you're at, but you can be living your legacy right now. It doesn't need to be in your 80s and 90s. I've always had big, beautiful goals for how all of these things are pulled together, and I also have a life partner who I love deeply my husband of 29 years and my two almost grown sons, who are 19 and 17, who are stepping into their own lives. It's an incredibly exciting time for each of them stepping into their own lives. It's an incredibly exciting time for each of them, and you know their dreams matter too. I've been seeding the intention and helping them seed their own intentions at the same time.

Sheila:

So I'm navigating what it means to hold space for everyone to win, while staying true to my path and, honestly, the last five years weren't just about building a business. They were also about shedding over-functioning the kind that hides in the corners of your life, the kind that looks like being helpful but actually that burns you out. So now I'm choosing to walk forward with my eyes wide open, without over-functioning and it is easier said than done. I'm not sure if you have experienced this yourself, if you know what I'm talking about and at the same time, I'm still showing up for the people I love, I'm still being in service. However, I'm not sacrificing my body anymore. I'm not sacrificing my boundaries or my brilliance in the process. That has been my biggest personal growth edge.

Sheila:

The second edge is actually living my season's success method, which means slowing down, resting, tuning into what's mine, not just what is trending. Recently, I had a detox flare-up that forced me to pause and my mind was ready to sprint, but my body said, nope, we are doing things differently now. So I have been moving with so much intention, making fewer moves but higher impact ones, and the internal work has been about sitting with that bubbling desire to run, while choosing to honor the healing, to give space to my relationships and to let what is truly aligned have time to rise. Here's the thing we're living in an era of rapid innovation and the pace is a breakneck, and if you're not careful, you'll start to believe that speed equals success. But for me, right now, discernment is everything. What is mine in this season? That is the only question that matters, and I'm learning to act from alignment to be in the right rooms, to create the rooms that I need when they don't yet exist. All while honoring my body, all while letting it be enough to move slow and steady towards something sacred. Let's talk about this for a moment, because it's something I see across the board with the people I support.

Sheila:

Slowing down doesn't mean stalling out. It means being intentional. It means actually having the capacity to hold the success that you're building. It means leading your business with your nervous system intact Inside expansion season. This is what we build Business foundations rooted in your real life, not in hustle culture. So if you're in a season where your body's asking for more, for more rest, more clarity, more simplicity, that doesn't make you weak. It actually is a very wise thing. Your body is asking of you At this level of leadership. Emotional precision is what sets you apart. You know how to read the room. You know when something's aligned, you know when it's performative, you know when it's time to move and when it's time to release something, and because of that, your actions land harder, your results compound faster, your energy is used with discernment and you don't get depleted. So the edge, it's not hustle, it's clarity.

Sheila:

In this season, I'm leaning into structure that feels nourishing, which looks like spacious time blocks with margin for me to move them. Movement and silence each morning. Simplified, offers a smaller number of high impact connections, and this is what's holding me. It truly is, and it's allowed me to build while becoming so, I invite you to ask yourself what structure supports your next level and what would it look like to let your business be easier? Right now, that still means putting in the work, but it's putting in the work that actually moves the needle, the work that's actually aligned and that which will yield the results you're truly after, not just the shiny metrics that everyone else is doing. So if this conversation has resonated with you, I want to invite you into the next evolution of your business.

Sheila:

Inside Expansion Season. We take everything I've talked about today and turn it into systems, strategies and self-leadership practices that support your full spectrum life and you will be doing it in community, with people who are done with burnout, done with over-functioning and ready to scale with intention. So you can learn more in the show notes and you can also go onto the socials and DM me the word expansion on Instagram. I will send you the details. So you're not behind. You're not doing it wrong. You're just in the middle of your masterpiece and I want to remind you that your body knows that your vision is valid. Your timeline is sacred, so keep going, keep becoming and remember that we all get to win. Thank you so much for being here. I will see you on the next episode.