When Your Business Vision Feels Too Big to Hold | EP 518

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You’ve felt it before — that mix of excitement and unease when your vision for your business feels bigger than your current capacity to hold it. It’s thrilling… and a little terrifying. In this episode, I’m sharing the exact mindset shift I made five years ago when I walked away from “dream” opportunities to build a business completely on my terms.

We’ll talk about why seasoned entrepreneurs often get stuck saying yes to what’s available instead of what’s aligned, and how that choice slowly erodes both freedom and fulfillment. I’ll share the gold nugget that’s helped me expand my capacity for income and impact while doing less than I ever have before — without sacrificing results.

If you’re a high-achieving founder who values both growth and well-being, this episode will help you make decisions that feel aligned now, while preparing you to step into the bigger opportunities that are truly yours to hold.

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• 0:00 Making the Pivot That Changed Everything

Transcript

Sheila: 0:01

Five years ago, I made a pivot that would greatly influence my life and work. Today, in this episode, I'm going to share how that choice was the key to opening up opportunities. I would never have imagined for myself Opportunities that have gone on to positively impact so many more lives than my own. I'll walk you through what it looked like to hold the vision, even when it felt too big, so that you can do the same without selling yourself short or missing the opportunities that are actually yours, because if you say yes to what's available instead of what's aligned, you'll always feel like you're living someone else's version of success. Hi, welcome to the podcast. I'm Sheila Botelho and I'm committed to help you reconnect to your purpose, elevate your wellbeing and build your version of a happy, successful life. You're listening to a mini-sode where I share an insight designed to help you live into what lights you up.

Sheila: 0:55

This week, something has been circling in my mind this week. You know those moments where you feel the bigness of what you're here to do. You know those moments where you feel the bigness of what you're here to do and it's exciting and it's lighting you up, but it also feels like, whoa, can I even hold all of this. Well, I remember feeling that exact tension about five years ago. I had already built multiple streams of income, I had clients, opportunities and other invitations flowing in, but something about it felt a little bit off. It was like I was standing in a house that I didn't remember designing, you know, and it's so interesting because it was starting to feel that way before everything shifted in 2020, right, so it looked good on paper, but it wasn't really feeling super aligned. And isn't it interesting? How, then, life will just show us what we actually need to see, because I realized that, really, this vision at first was not really mine from the ground up. And that's when I made a very uncomfortable but freeing decision, and that was to start shaping my business and life exactly the way I wanted, not just stepping into what was being offered, what was just there, kind of the easy route in front of me. And let me tell you, that decision scared me a bit because my gifts, my vision, they all felt too big to hold in terms of what was next for me.

Sheila: 2:18

And if you're anything like that, if you're anything like me in this regard, you have had also seasons where the dreams and visions and opportunities coming your way felt really, really aligned on paper, and yet a little voice keeps popping up saying to you are you ready? What if you mess it up? What if this makes you too visible? And what I've learned through this experience is that resistance like that usually isn't about a lack of ability. It's about the stretch that it takes to become the person who can stand in that much light without shrinking. And this also is one of those lessons that has happened more than once in my life. In fact, it is a recurring theme and you may find that it is for you too, and I'm sure it will pop up again.

Sheila: 3:14

This is part of expansion and you'll notice, as you expand in your life, you'll find yourself coming back to the same foundational principles that have helped you start other things in the past. Truly, we love, as we're growing, as we're changing, as we're adapting new philosophies, we start to look around and when you've been around long enough, you start looking back and saying, oh, I've been here before. It was regarding something different, I was at a different phase of my life, but it's a similar theme. Everything is about the fundamentals and the mistake I see a lot of seasoned entrepreneurs make and I almost made myself this time around is thinking that you have to leap from where you are now straight into the biggest version of that dream. Because you see where it can go. You're just like, okay, I just wanna get there now, get me there faster.

Sheila: 4:11

But holding your vision. It's not a one and done, it really is a practice. You're not putting on a performance. Really. What you need to do is you need to take the time required. You don't need to have everything arrive all at once. You can grow into it by taking one aligned action at a time. So your energy and your spirit, your nervous system, if you will, and your capacity to expand will happen naturally instead of snapping under pressure, which can happen.

Sheila: 4:47

So for me, five years ago, what that looked like was saying no to certain kind of more prestige projects that really weren't mine to carry, to building programs that reflected my philosophy of self-care as a business strategy, and also creating containers where both my clients and I could thrive without burning out. And the key here is, every time I honored my capacity instead of just chasing the biggest possible result, my results actually started to grow without exhausting me, and that's the part that people don't often talk about, that when you're saying that you're doing something less, like you're doing less, you don't have as much on your calendar, it doesn't mean you're playing small. It means you're letting your energy focus only on what creates the most meaningful impact for you in that season of your life. So this week, my question for you is what is one gift you've been given a talent, an opportunity, a dream that feels a little too big right now? And what's one small soul honoring step that you can take to grow into it without totally burning yourself out? Let's let this week be about walking toward our bigness, one aligned step at a time.

Sheila: 6:12

Thanks so much for listening. Take a look at the show notes. There's all the wonderful ways we can connect over there and work together. I hope you have a beautiful rest of this week and I'll see you on Thursday's episode. Big blessings you.